Last Monday my husband cornered me with the newspaper in hand and asked me if I was guilty. Guilty? Me?
Well, it seems there was a letter in the Dear Abby column and he thought maybe I wrote it. Seems the person who wrote it told Ms. Abby that they had some friends over for dinner a few times and this couple has not reciprocated. What really frosted the writer was this couple will often brag about the other folks they have invited over and all the different things they served and how much fun it was. And the write explained how hurtful it was to them who have not been invited.
I am innocent. I didn’t write the letter. But I could have. We know a couple just like that. We’ve had them as guests 4-5 times. Yet no dinner invite or meal out or whatever. But this gal brags nonstop about the meals she fixes when she invites these other people over. And it hurts. My husband says we must be pond scum.
Ms. Abby suggested they no longer remain friends with this couple. Sound great in print, doesn’t it? But, friends are still to be cherished even if they aren’t always kind. So, we’ll remain friends with them. We just won’t invite them over again.
And that, my friends is my story and I’m sticking to it!
Innocent until proven guilty
May 19th, 2010 at 11:58 pm
May 20th, 2010 at 12:21 am 1274314917
Anyway I know how you feel!
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May 20th, 2010 at 07:28 am 1274340538
just drop general hints about it.
also, have you thought that maybe it actually places a lot of stress on them and they really LIKE going to your house for dinner? i only say this because hosting dinner parties certainly stresses me out. I work with food, so it is really a big deal for me to cook for my friends, I would be horrified if they didn't like it.
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Jerry